Self-Empowerment For Women

<body topmargin=0 leftmargin=0 marginheight=0 marginwidth=0> <table cellpadding=0 cellspacing=0 border=0><tr> <td valign="top" colspan=2 height=90 BGCOLOR="#6666FF" TEXT="#080000" bgproperties="fixed" background="08e00760egblyg.jpg"> <div> <FONT SIZE="5" COLOR="#330066" FACE="Times New Roman" ><B>DYNAMIC CHANGES</B></FONT><FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#CC3399" FACE="Times New Roman" > </FONT><FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#3300FF" FACE="Times New Roman" > </FONT><FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#FFFFFF" FACE="Times New Roman" ><B> </B><B> </B></FONT><FONT SIZE="2" COLOR="#111111" FACE="Times New Roman" ><B>|</B></FONT><B>   </B><B>  </B><A HREF="index.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Home"><U><B>HOME</B></U></A></div> <div> <A HREF="id17.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE=" About Linda Van Haver"><U><B> About Linda Van Haver</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id22.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Services"><U><B>Services</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id42.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="News And Events"><U><B>News And Events</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id21.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Contact Us"><U><B>Contact  Us</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id20.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE=" FAQ"><U><B>  FAQ</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id29.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Interesting Case Histories"><U><B>Interesting Case Histories</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><B>Self-Empowerment For Women</B><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id18.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Fees"><U><B>Fees</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id35.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="EFT"><U><B>EFT</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id28.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Inspiration"><U><B>Inspiration</B></U></A><B>   |   </B><A HREF="id36.htm" TARGET="_top" TITLE="Store"><U><B>Store</B></U></A></div> <div> </div> </td> </tr><tr> <td valign="top" width=193 BGCOLOR="#DDDDDD" TEXT="#080000"> <div> <B><U>Client Comments</U></B></div> <div>  </div> <div> <B>"Thank you for bringing light back to my soul.  I am so happy that God put you in my path."  </B></div> <div> <B>Karen M., Boca Raton</B></div> <bR> <div> <B>"Linda, you have turned my life completely around.  I had no idea that people could live like this.  So happy!  Thank you, thank you, thank you."</B></div> <div> <B>Lynn DaCorte</B></div> <bR> <div> <B>"I wanted to take this opportunity to thank you for helping to make me the person I am today.  I couldn't have done it without you."  </B></div> <div> <B>Olivia, Ft. 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You don't need to do that in order to be loved.  As a matter of fact, I can guarantee that you won't be loved the way you should if you do put up with it.</div> <bR> <div> Professional motivators will tell you that you become what you think about.  Your thoughts create your reality.  If all day long you think that you are "less than", not as good as other people, shy, intimidated, that is surely how you will act.  What interests me is to go below that to figure out why you think those thoughts.  What in your background, what happened to you in your life that causes those negative restricting thoughts to dominate?</div> <bR> <div> Cotton isn't the fabric of our lives.  The threads leading from the present back to your experiences is the fabric of your life.  You've created a belief system that determines your experiences.  The good news is that you can cut the threads to the past and weave new fabric.  That doesn't mean that you'll forget your defining moments, it just means that you'll release the negative charge attached to them. Those negative charges hold you in place, defeat you, and keep you from attaining your true potential.</div> <bR> <div> The good news is THERE IS A WAY OUT.  The Self-Empowerment Series is a dynamic system developed for <I>rapid</I> change resulting in personal strength, self-confidence, pride, joy, and motivation. With a special blending of Hypnotherapy, EFT and Motivational Coaching, you can release your limiting patterns and conditioning and attain the life you desire.  </div> <bR> <div> <B>Do you suffer from the disease to please?  Are you having trouble moving on since a breakup?  Do you attract the same type of emotionally abusive man into your life over and over again?  Do you have extreme anxiety?  Call us today at 772 -770- MIND and start living your best life.  Stop being the "good little girl" and become the woman you were meant to be.</B></div> <bR> <bR> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> <B>STEPS TOWARDS HEALING</B></div> <bR> <div> 1.  If you are drinking alcohol.  Stop.</div> <div> Even if you are having only a glass of wine with dinner, give it up at least for now.  The idea here is to feel your feelings especially the uncomfortable ones so that you can harness them for their power and propel yourself into change.  You don't want to lessen the negative feelings.  Most of what we do as humans is based on getting us out of pain and into pleasure.  We're not looking for a temporary fix here but <U>real</U> permanent change.</div> <bR> <div> 2.  Get plenty of sleep.  You may feel restless and have trouble sleeping, but do everything you can (naturally) to get good quality sleep.  Your body is healing right now and needs that sleep.</div> <bR> <div> 3.  Get your home clean and organized.  Aside from the positive affirmation you'll get when you look around your home it definitely rubs off on your psyche.</div> <bR> <div> 4.  Exercise on a regular basis.  This helps reduce the depression and gives you feelings of empowerment.</div> <bR> <div> 5.  Eat healthy.  You need good quality fuel now more than ever.</div> <bR> <div> 6.  Do at least one extracurricular activity.  You are so much more than the things that went wrong in your life.  </div> <bR> <div> 7.  Try something new every 14 days.</div> <bR> <div> 8.  Drop the negative people from your life.</div> <bR> <div> 9.  Do not watch more than 1 & 1/2 hours of TV daily.</div> <bR> <div> 10.  Start your day by reading something positive.  Even just one uplifting sentence will do.</div> <bR> <div> 11.  Find a sounding board, champion, or mentor.</div> <bR> <div> 12.  Words have energy.  Do not use cuss words.  Along those same lines, do not use any negative slang words for people of another race or religion.</div> <bR> <div> 13.  Change what you do during your leisure time.</div> <bR> <div> 14.  Don't gossip.  It wastes your energy and puts more bad vibes out into the atmosphere.  </div> <bR> <div> 15.  Give yourself a pat on the back for everything you do right.  Celebrate every victory no matter how small.  You deserve it.</div> <bR> <DIV ALIGN="LEFT"></DIV> <div> check out my other website:</div> <div> <FONT SIZE="3" COLOR="#111111" FACE="Verdana" ><A HREF="http://www.selfempowermentsolutions.com" TARGET="_top" TITLE="http://www.selfempowermentsolutions.com"><U>http://</U></A></FONT><A HREF="http://www.selfempowermentsolutions.com" TARGET="_top" TITLE="http://www.selfempowermentsolutions.com"><U><B>www.</B></U></A><A HREF="http://www.selfempowermentsolutions.com" TARGET="_top" TITLE="http://www.selfempowermentsolutions.com"><U><B>selfempowermentsolutions.com</B></U></A></div> <bR> <bR> </td> </tr></table></body>